The Vault

Old projects, still loved but no longer under active development.

  • Letters to Boys, private correspondence from me to various people I was dating. November 2025.

  • The Writing Series. Longform non-fiction about writing fiction, my passion project of late 2025.

  • My Autism AMA, ported over from Facebook. 2022.

Letters to Boys

Every day in November, 2025, I posted a letter I had written to a man I was dating — or breaking up with — at the time.

You can read the whole blog, or check out some of the highlights:

  • Love After Breaking Up. The series intro. Once I love someone, I keep loving them — or at least, the version of them I knew.

  • Hideyness. A useful model when your relationship includes an introvert or two.

  • Let’s Go on a Date. In which I ask Eliezer out, and we begin a beautiful relationship. I believe in finding dealbreakers immediately.

  • High Visibility Love. I told John I loved him via my blog, after our second date.

The Writing Series

From December 27, 2025 through January 15, 2026, I posted an article about writing fiction every day.

You can read the full series on my blog. Here are some of the best individual articles:

  • Write Every Day. Conventional wisdom says that serious writers write every single day. How important is that, and why?

  • Writing Advice Crimes. How the writing advice industry failed me thrice over.

  • Drive to Write. Is there such a thing as a born writer? Can you just decide to become a writer?

My Autism AMA

Starting on Autism Awareness Day in 2022 I did an AMA (ask me anything) about autism on Facebook. FB is largely defunct / overrun these days so I’ve ported that content over.

It’s long, so I created a dedicated page for it.